Chris Moody
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How to improve your blog community by being yourself
Jun 8th
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As we all focus on search engine optimization, blogging, and social media… we tend to forget a very important element – Personality.
People want the real you (if they want you at all).
I’m not implying that we shouldn’t be professional and show subject matter expertise when we write, but is that it? There are millions of people talking about the same topics I talk about and probably yours too. Now that we know we aren’t the only ones talking about social media, how can we improve our blog communities by being ourselves?
1. Write down three important personal interests and put them in your bio.
Cheesy? Yes. Painful? Maybe. Useful? Definitely. If you’ve had a blog for more than six months and the three things you write down can’t be found in a post or in your About page, we’ve got a problem. If people take the time out of their days to read our ramblings, unless we’re THE thought leader in the industry crushing it with every single post… we’ve got to let them get to know us.
Three “personal” things about me influence a lot of what I write or talk about and have all served as conversation starters online and in person.
2. Write as if you are talking to your friends or colleagues.
I too get the Dictionary.com Word of the Day, but that doesn’t mean I need to use it in each post. The goal is to get people to take the time to read and hopefully follow a call to action (comment, subscribe, buy, download, etc.). Today the word is jnana. Do you know what that means? Do I look smart or intelligent for using that? Be conversational and serve your audience – if your audience knows jnana, you get brownie points.
3. Be passionate about things you believe in or are an advocate for.
Please understand that the tips and tricks to making a blog successful are important, but balance that with the fact that in less than 20 minutes… I can start a new blog talking about whatever I want. There is more noise than ever and to build a community, you must either serve a niche or build relationships – ideally both.
If you are motivated to write a post that evokes emotion, do it before you change your mind. To this date, my post with the most engagement (shares, comments, emails, direct messages, discussions, etc) is my most personal post. One that I debated writing. One that I reread four times before posting. One that I wrote at 3am. Passion and expertise differentiate.
4. Reply to comments and share, share, share.
If you receive a comment, take the time to respond – whether publicly or private. Reading and commenting takes time and to the best of my knowledge, we don’t yet have an infinite supply of that. Showing your community that you’re listening, processing, and thinking about what they say is extremely important.
Also, check out the blogs and tweets from your readers. Chris Brogan suggests that we should share 12 times as much as we self-promote on Twitter. Think about that before posting five tweets with different variations promoting that recent blog post. Reciprocity helps strengthen relationships.
5. Extend your reach and get away from the computer.
Since the beginning of time, human interaction has been extremely important. As we create more and more tools to facilitate this online, we forget that in-person interactions are still extremely beneficial. While I say that somewhat tongue-in-check, it is important to make those face-to-face connections when you can. It could be a customer a few miles away or a commenter attending the next industry conference you’re going to. Take the time to cultivate those relationships and you won’t have to tell them when you publish new blog posts… they’ll know. Be yourself and get out there and network.
The benefit of being yourself…
I’ll be the first to admit that most of these tips are not revolutionary or ground-breaking. Often times, the simple things are the ones we neglect. Personal branding is extremely important, but if your personal brand is simply a professional façade with none of the things that set you apart… you’ll just continue to be an information hub. Think of your favorite blog and I’m confident you’ll know at least three things about the person writing it.
While this post isn’t about metrics, in my opinion, repeat visitors are more critical than first time visitors. Far too often, we choose to monitor “Visitors” because it is the largest number, but there are far more variables there. Keep a constant eye on your Repeat visitors and try to narrow the gap between your first time and repeat folks. The smaller that gap is, the stronger your community is and the more engagement you’ll see. Being yourself is the fastest way to get there.
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You Can’t Fake the Funk: A Social Media Gut Check
Feb 24th
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Over the past week, I’ve read some great contrarian posts… There were the life without Twitter posts from @djwaldow (here), @unmarketing (here) and @lisabarone (here). @justinkownacki had some great pain point posts as well, especially Why I Need You To Be a Better Audience, which had comment discussion that rivaled the awesomeness of the original post.
To add fuel on the fire, I had a great side DM discussion with @ambercadabra during one of her webinars last week where she invited me to disagree with her on a certain topic.
The limited number of folks in the social media space who know me personally know that I’ll happily disagree if I feel passionately about a subject, but I don’t do that a ton here (my blog).
I don’t think it is intentional though… I don’t think saying the same things that everyone else says or talking about topics that everyone will click on is important. It is writing with passion, conviction, or just sharing what you know.
That leads me to this post.
Tonight I was followed by another self-proclaimed social media expert. I’m not going to bash on that, because in all honesty, there are folks that I DO consider to be social media experts despite the audible groans heard throughout the crowd if anyone says that.
My favorite thing about success is that you can’t fake it.
You can’t game the system (at least not for long). And for the most part, the thought leaders self-regulate the community, even if unintentionally. The cream will metaphorically rise to the top.
Think about the last networking event you were at. For the most part, whether it is someone who is mega-famous, or a bottom feeder like myself, if you can hold intelligent conversation and offer insight… you can talk to anyone. There aren’t as many cliques in social media as it appears. Smart people like talking to smart people. Followers don’t matter. Blog subscribers don’t matter. Popularity doesn’t matter. Authentic smarts matter.
I grow tired of posts about social media etiquette. Yes, it is very important, but to me it is pretty easy… be yourself.
If you’re an ass, people will know. If you’re a nice guy, people will know. If you have your act together, people will know.
Personal branding awareness is at an all-time high. Anyone off the street can start a blog, proclaim expertise, build a following, and appear to be one hell of a social media expert, consultant, guru, ninja, or whatever you prefer.
But who the hell cares?
If we spend our time policing against the imposters – we suffer.
Our communities suffer.
All of those things will work themselves out in the end.
What are you doing to improve your community?
So people of power with your Twitter followers, blog subscribers, advertisers, sponsors, etc… What are you doing to advance those around you?
I have been absolutely amazed by the folks I’ve met that are doing incredible things in their communities… even if it is taking the time to talk with anyone and everyone about what they’re doing and what questions they have.
I love seeing that and love you all for doing that.
Being able to monetize what you love and making your career feel less like work is extremely important, but there are plenty of times we can help others without expecting compensation.
That could be volunteering select speaking opportunities, helping high school or college courses in your areas of expertise or engaging with your community to the point of being helpful.
Nothing ground-breaking here, I just think we need to say: ask not what your community can do for you, ask what you can do for your community… or something like that.
Please feel free to comment on what you’re doing to help others through social media or in social media. The NCSU MBA course on social media is coming back this Fall and I’d love to add more of you as guest speakers. Thanks for taking the time to read this and please drop a quick comment if you have another minute. :) @cnmoody
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Why Vintage Advertising will always have my heart
Jan 8th
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There are times I think I should have been born 50 years ago…
Despite my love for technology, my dorkiness with gadgets, my borderline obsession with social media, I’ve always loved vintage advertisements.
There is something so real and raw about them. The fact that I can look at something, know what it is, and say “I can haz that!” is comforting.
There are some super clever ads and new methods these days (some in my Flickr), but for me, clarity is key.
As we all evolve and update our marketing collateral and ads, please pay homage to vintage ads and be clear. Don’t lose your message by pushing the envelope.
Remember your message and be clear!
With that, PLEASE check out Vintage Ad Browser and let me know what you think!
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Interested in a job in social media? Lemme see your footprint!
Dec 8th
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These days everyone wants a job in social media. It is hip, cool and evidently very fun. Tweeting and checking Facebook all day sounds good to me! With this all to common misconception, everyone I know in social media has been bombarded by folks who want to join the field. This is by no means a knock to any of those people because I’ve actually had conversations with a few people who I think would be GREAT in social media (you know who you are).
There are tons of great articles about being a great social media manager, community manager, social marketing manager, or any terminology you’d prefer. I thought about assembling them all in this post, but didn’t because honestly, if you can’t find those articles…social media will not come easy to you.
My best advice to a friend or enemy wanting to get into social media is the same…show me your footprint (I wear size 15 shoes and naturally leave a nice sized mark behind).
What do I mean by footprint?
- What have you done to build your personal brand?
- Good: I have a personal blog where I try to post at least weekly and I engage friends/users on Twitter.
- Bad: What do you mean? Oh yeah, I have Facebook and Myspace.
- How focused/constant is your personal blog?
- Good: I’m interested in social media and sports. I’d guess over 90% of my posts fall in those two topics and I try to post weekly.
- Bad: What is a blog? I don’t have a blog, but I tweet to win free stuff and have lots of status updates and friends on Facebook.
- Do you actively use social media networks? Which ones? How? Why?
- Good: I have my blog at WordPress which pushes to Twitter, Facebook and other social media sites. That helps me keep a constant stream of updates in various places. I also use Digg for strong content and Delicious to manage my personal bookmarks. Twitter is the network I engage the most on because of the vast number of people with similar interests.
- Bad: I use Facebook, Twitter and Myspace because my friends are on them and they are popular.
- What social media policies have you enacted?
- Good: I haven’t had an opportunity to enact policies with a company, but I have a standard for myself. I use Facebook more for personal use and LinkedIn and Twitter for professional use. With any outlet, I follow one simple rule: “Am I okay with my boss, mom, and significant other reading/seeing this.”
- Bad: Huh?
- Why social media?
- Good: I have had a personal interest as you can see by what we’ve already covered. I know that this is a great fit for my skills and personalities and I’m not afraid of working as hard as I can to prove that.
- Bad: I’m on Facebook and Twitter all the time.
I’m by no means an expert, but I am a firm believer in practicing what you preach. If you truly have interest in a topic, I believe that you will do your homework and be prepared to demonstrate that interest…which naturally leads to a footprint.
For many marketing and social media jobs, the resume walk-through is being replaced by your personal stamp or footprint. You will be “Googled, Facebooked, Twittered, and probably Myspaced” and you should adjust accordingly.
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Recap from an Interviewing Panel at UNC-CH
Dec 7th
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Friday 12/4/09 I was fortunate enough to join an interviewing panel with Jason Dean (a fellow @bandwidth employee). We spent over an hour fielding Q&A with panelists from Bank of America and Johnson & Johnson.
A few key points
- Thank you notes are important and electronic notes are becoming more of the norm (in comparison to hand-written)
- Ask quality questions that have value to you – an interview IS a two-way process
- Be prepared to give a brief or detailed resume walk-through
- Take abbreviated notes and don’t let it detract from your attention or eye contact
- Be professional, but be yourself
After the Q&A session, we split up and each conducted 4-7 mock interviews. Being a marketing practitioner, I was fortunate enough to spend time with first year MBA students eager to become marketers. Each session was different and the feedback was overwhelmingly positive.
One key point
I may be a little off base here because I’ve worked with startups and companies with startup mentalities, but I am a big believer in letting the interviewer get to know you. Make sure that when you interview, you let your “true colors” show while remaining professional. Again, all the interviews went well, but the lasting memories are of the stories.
You don’t need me to talk about the importance of storytelling (there’s a network for that), but being memorable is important. Be confident and make sure that whoever you interview with knows your story when you walk out of the room. In many cases, it is that story of how one has overcome an obstacle to be where they are today that wins out over any initial nervousness or the possibility of a lack of experience.
Tell great stories…more comes out about the person you are and the employee you can be that way.
Disclaimer: I am not an HR expert and am simply rehashing my personal opinions. If you want to follow an HR expert, my personal favorite is @Lruettimann of PunkRockHR.com. Laurie knows her stuff and has a sense of humor (that’s an understatement).
